Written by Lauren Rose, as told by "Jessica" When I first met Charles, I was coming off a very recent, very messy breakup with a college boyfriend who had been physically abusive to me during our two-year relationship. Charles was clearly very well educated (having...
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Domestic Abuse Through The Eyes Of A Child
Written by Lauren, as told by Laurie By the time I was born, my mom had already been married to, and lived with, my abusive dad for over three years. The abuse she experienced was related to control: he was never satisfied with her, and wanted to recreate her in an...
Domestic Abuse Devastated “Kasey” And Her Children
As told by "Kasey," written by Lauren Rose When I was first dating my soon-to-be husband, it didn’t take long for several red flags to begin appearing…but I was too young, naïve, and love-starved to recognize them. Immediately after we married, he suddenly wanted...
“Hermosa Mariposa” Discovers Domestic Violence Isn’t Mutual
As told by "Hermosa Mariposa,” written by Lauren Rose When I first met my soon-to-be husband, he seemed to be very loving and caring, and everything I ever wanted in a husband…but looking back, now I see that what looked like "care" was actually the beginning of...
The Emotional and Spiritual Impacts of Domestic Violence Devastated “Mercy”
As told by “Mercy” and written by Lauren Rose When I first met my husband, he made me feel special, unlike anyone else. Most of our time together was spent studying the Bible, or discussing what God was doing in our lives. I was a new believer, and had just broken up...
5 Ways Investing in CTPM Has Impacted My Life
Written anonymously by one of our superstar volunteers. She is heavily involved in both our Church Partnership and Advocacy programs, assisting us in ways that many are unaware of. Our impact has been very influenced by the expertise, gifts, and skills she offers...
CTPM Gave My Home Peace After Domestic Abuse
As told by "Natasha," with assistance in writing by Lauren Rose Dear Supporter of CTPM, Two years ago, I entered a CTPM support group and was assigned an advocate. These women have been supporting me in all areas of healing. As I have been processing the painful...
10 Things You Need to Know About Domestic Abuse in the Military
By River Grace Outlaw It happens…a lot. Domestic violence rates are substantially higher in military couples. Let me preface this story with my awareness that my story is just one experience out of many, and every story is different. I was a starstruck bride as we...
The Power of Community to Heal Domestic Abuse
Written by Lauren Rose as told by "Amanda" Wow, I've just returned from an incredible mountain top experience — both figuratively and literally! I was a very fortunate scholarship recipient of the 2023 He Makes All Things New women's retreat, and want to thank those...
“Juliette” and Her Children Discover God’s Provision After Domestic Abuse
Written by Lauren Rose as told by "Juliette" Before my marriage, I was independent with an established career. I rented a home from my parents, I had a low car payment (almost paid off), and my credit score was good. When I first met my husband, he was charming, but...
“LaShronda” Finds a Slice of Heaven After Domestic Abuse
Written by Lauren Rose as told by "LaShronda" The abuse I endured in my marriage was horrendous. I suffered through multiple physical assaults. I once picked up his phone, and he punched me so hard it broke my nose. If I confronted him, he would state that he ‘wanted...
“Ashley” Finds Community and Purpose at our Women’s Retreat
I'm crying just thinking back at how much God has done in my life through the Called to Peace Ministries He Makes All Things New 2022 Women's Retreat. I learned about the Retreat from my CTPM online support group. As a newly single mother of two toddlers, I knew I...